How to Take Blame and Shame out of your Relationships

It’s so easy to point the finger and tell someone what they are doing wrong and why it is their fault there is a problem in the relationship. But every time you point the finger, there are 4 fingers pointing back at yourself.

When I walk away from someone or something, I usually brush it off as “not my problem.” I remove and disconnect myself.

But we attract people, places and things into our lives for a reason. People come into our lives as a direct mirror reflection of ourselves, designed to help us heal and self-realize.

So when we brush it off as “your problem, not mine” we miss an opportunity for growth.

And most likely, someone else will show up down the road to teach you the same lesson, and again and again until you get it.

This is why shadow work is so important.

In today’s video, I talk specifically about my own shadow:

ENGAGE, leave a comment: are you blaming someone in your life? What’s the mirror? Share your insights.